OkCupid FAQ

Answers to your most common questions about OkCupid.

Quick, simple, and helpful information at a glance.

How do I log in to my OkCupid account?
To log in to your OkCupid account, go to the website and click on the "Sign In" button. Then, enter your email address and password associated with your account.
I forgot my password, how can I reset it?
To reset your password, click on the "Forgot your Password?" link on the login page. You will receive an email with instructions on how to reset your password.
Why is my account suspended?
Accounts can be suspended for violating OkCupid's terms of service, such as creating multiple accounts, misleading information, or inappropriate behavior. If you believe your account was suspended in error, you can contact OkCupid's support team for assistance.
Why can't I upload photos to my profile?
Make sure the photos you are trying to upload are in the accepted formats (JPEG, PNG, or GIF) and do not violate any of OkCupid's guidelines. If the issue persists, try clearing your browser's cache and cookies or using a different browser.
Why am I not receiving any matches?
There could be various reasons for not receiving matches, such as not completing your profile, having too narrow search criteria, or being in a location with a small dating pool. Try updating your profile and expanding your search criteria to see if that helps.
Why do I keep getting logged out of my account?
This could be due to a technical issue, slow internet connection, or an outdated browser. Try clearing your cache and cookies, restarting your device, or using a different browser.
How can I edit my profile information?
To edit your profile, go to your profile page and click on the "Edit Profile" button. From there, you can make changes to your information, photos, and settings.
I'm unable to send or receive messages, what's the problem?
If you're having trouble sending or receiving messages, it could be due to a temporary technical issue. Try logging out and logging back in, clearing your cache and cookies, or using a different browser. If the problem persists, contact OkCupid support for assistance.
Why are my messages not being delivered?
There could be various reasons for messages not being delivered, such as the recipient's account being suspended or their message filter settings. Try sending the message again or contact OkCupid support if the issue continues.
How can I block another user?
To block another user, go to their profile and click on the "Block" button. This will prevent them from seeing your profile, sending you messages, and appearing in your match results.
Where can I find information on how to use OkCupid?
You can find a comprehensive FAQ section and resources on how to use OkCupid on their website.
How can I report a user for violating the community guidelines?
To report a user, go to their profile and click on the "Report" button. You will then be prompted to select the reason for reporting and provide a brief explanation.
I accidentally unmatched with someone, can I get them back?
Once a match is unmatched, you won't be able to undo it or get it back. If you had a conversation with the person, you can still find it in your messages.
Why are my matches located far away?
This could be because the person changed their location, or their location is not accurate on OkCupid. You can adjust your search criteria to show matches within a specific distance from your location.
How can I change my location on OkCupid?
To change your location on OkCupid, go to your profile and click on the "Edit Profile" button. From there, you can enter a new location in the "Location" field.
Why am I not receiving any likes?
There could be various reasons for not receiving likes, such as having a low compatibility score or not being active enough on the platform. Try updating your profile and engaging with other users to increase your chances of receiving likes.
I'm not happy with my username, can I change it?
Yes, you can change your username by going to your profile and clicking on the "Edit Profile" button. Keep in mind that you can only change your username once every 6 months.
Why am I being charged for OkCupid?
OkCupid offers a free version and a paid subscription service. If you signed up for a paid subscription, you will be charged according to the plan you selected. You can cancel your subscription at any time.
How can I delete my account?
To delete your account, go to the "Settings" page and click on "Deactivate Account" at the bottom. Keep in mind that this action is irreversible and will permanently delete your profile and all associated information.
My location on OkCupid is wrong, how can I fix it?
If your location is incorrect on OkCupid, try updating your location on your device's settings. If that doesn't work, contact OkCupid support for assistance.
I'm not interested in receiving matches from a particular age group, how can I change this?
To adjust your age preferences, go to your "Settings" page, and click on "Match Preferences." From there, you can adjust the age range of your potential matches.
Why is my profile under review?
Your profile may be under review if it violates OkCupid's terms of service. Contact OkCupid support for more information.
How do I report a technical issue?
To report a technical issue, go to the "Help" page and click on "Report a Technical Issue" at the bottom. From there, you can provide details about the issue you are experiencing.
Can I change my gender on OkCupid?
Yes, you can change your gender by going to your "Settings" page and clicking on "Edit Profile." From there, you can update your gender information.
How do I disable or delete my profile?
To disable your profile, go to your "Settings" page and click on "Disable or Delete My Profile." From there, you can choose to either disable or permanently delete your account.
Why am I receiving spam messages on OkCupid?
If you're receiving spam messages on OkCupid, report the user and block them. Additionally, you can adjust your mail settings to only receive messages from users you have already liked.